Name: 愛情——你們全搞錯了
Uploaded: 2014-02-14T15:52:57Z
Duration: 10 min 27 s
Description: 在這令人愉快的談話中，哲學家楊．達拉利奧探討我們對於溫柔的普遍尋索，並談論溫柔與那日漸專注於個體世界中的曖昧關係。事實上，愛情這東西比你想像的簡單得多。這是一個關於當代愛情的聰慧、有趣思考。（影片攝於 TEDxParis）

在這令人愉快的談話中，哲學家楊．達拉利奧探討我們對於溫柔的普遍尋索，並談論溫柔與那日漸專注於個體世界中的曖昧關係。事實上，愛情這東西比你想像的簡單得多。這是一個關於當代愛情的聰慧、有趣思考。（影片攝於 TEDxParis）

愛情——你們全搞錯了

Love today is shaped by a relentless pursuit to be seen as desirable, fueled by social and economic forces that value people much like stocks on a market. In a world where buying jeans or collecting trophies becomes a way to win affection, anxiety and loneliness thrive. The speaker jokes about seduction capital and even 'pick-up artists' treating heartbreak as an infection, spotlighting a culture fixated on desirability. True connection, the talk argues, requires embracing our own uselessness and flaws, and turning toward tenderness instead of perfection.