Name: 爱情——你们全搞错了
Uploaded: 2014-02-14T15:52:57Z
Duration: 10 min 27 s
Description: 在这令人愉快的谈话中，哲学家杨·达拉利奥（Yann Dall'Aglio）探讨我们对温柔的普遍寻索，并谈论温柔与那日渐专注于个体世界中的暖昧关系。事实上，爱情这东西比你想象的简单得多。这是一个关于当代爱情的聪慧，有趣思考（影片摄于TEDxParis）

在这令人愉快的谈话中，哲学家杨·达拉利奥（Yann Dall'Aglio）探讨我们对温柔的普遍寻索，并谈论温柔与那日渐专注于个体世界中的暖昧关系。事实上，爱情这东西比你想象的简单得多。这是一个关于当代爱情的聪慧，有趣思考（影片摄于TEDxParis）

爱情——你们全搞错了

Love today is shaped by a relentless pursuit to be seen as desirable, fueled by social and economic forces that value people much like stocks on a market. In a world where buying jeans or collecting trophies becomes a way to win affection, anxiety and loneliness thrive. The speaker jokes about seduction capital and even 'pick-up artists' treating heartbreak as an infection, spotlighting a culture fixated on desirability. True connection, the talk argues, requires embracing our own uselessness and flaws, and turning toward tenderness instead of perfection.