Name: 如何作出艰难抉择
Uploaded: 2014-06-18T15:00:39Z
Duration: 14 min 27 s
Description: 此番演讲或许真的能改变你的人生。我该追寻何种职业？我该与情人分手——还是结婚？我该住哪？如此一类的大型抉择十分困难，让我们极度痛苦。但哲学家张美露说：“这是因为我们看待艰难抉择的方式出错了。”她提供了一种全新的思维框架以帮助我们重塑真我。

张美露: 如何作出艰难抉择

如何作出艰难抉择

此番演讲或许真的能改变你的人生。我该追寻何种职业？我该与情人分手——还是结婚？我该住哪？如此一类的大型抉择十分困难，让我们极度痛苦。但哲学家张美露说：“这是因为我们看待艰难抉择的方式出错了。”她提供了一种全新的思维框架以帮助我们重塑真我。

Big decisions like changing careers or moving cities often feel agonizing because neither option is outright better. Even something as simple as choosing between cereal and a donut can be a hard choice when different values pull in opposite directions. The real challenge comes not from ignorance but from the fact that some alternatives are fundamentally incomparable. This opens a space for people to define themselves by creating their own reasons and standing behind their choices.