麥特．特郎布利: 「找出共通點」的美好與複雜

「找出共通點」的美好與複雜

我們如何能以尊重、有生產力的方式向他人表示不同意？在這場周全的演說中，團隊建立者麥特．特郎布利要帶大家反思「爭勝」——傾向對議題採取不變固執的立場——並說明為什麼解決衝突的第一步會是找到認同的面向。他說：「一旦你找到和別人的共通點，即便只有一點點，也會讓你能夠了解到那個人的美好、複雜，以及雄偉。」

Rigid stances on issues, a mindset called agonism, can quietly poison personal bonds and communities alike. After a neighbor wrongly accused a family of running an illegal daycare because their adopted children looked different, the need for empathy and connection became clear. Finding even one shared value, like honoring someone’s chosen name, can transform division into understanding. Forgiveness and extravagant grace, as seen in the story of a mother pardoning her son’s killer in Iran, create space for healing and deeper relationships.