當我們墜入了愛河，愛如潮水般襲來，我們愛得如癡如醉。愛情就像一把火，燃燒著我們。愛情使我們瘋狂、讓我們生病、令我們心痛。作家曼荻·倫恩·凱特倫說，我們闡述愛情的方式，基本上形塑了我們對愛情的體驗。對任何一位陷入過瘋狂熱戀的人，這場演講提供了愛情另一種比喻，或許能夠幫助我們在愛情中獲得更多的快樂，減輕自己的痛苦。

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The language of love is steeped in metaphors of suffering and chaos, shaping relationships around pain and passivity. Research shows that early romantic love can mimic mental illness, with serotonin levels resembling those of obsessive-compulsive disorder. These metaphors, rooted in cultural stories and expectations, trap people into believing that love should be overwhelming or miserable. Redefining love as a collaborative work of art opens space for joy, agency, and creative partnership.

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曼荻·倫恩·卡特龍: 闡述愛情的方法