幾乎每個人在人生中的某個時點，都會遇到心碎的狀況。想像一下，如果我們能更留意這種獨特的情緒痛苦，一切會多麼不同。心理學家蓋溫奇揭露，我們的直覺是要去理想化對方以及尋找不存在的答案，而心碎的復元始於和這些直覺對戰的決心。他也提供一套方法，讓我們最終能走下去。我們的心有時會碎，但我們不用跟著倒下。

如何修復破碎的心

Recovering from heartbreak is not just emotional; it rewires the brain much like drug withdrawal. Even the strongest people can become trapped in cycles of longing and obsessive analysis, as seen when a woman who survived cancer was undone by a breakup. Searching for satisfying answers or idealizing the lost relationship only deepens the pain. Real healing starts with conscious effort to break these patterns and fill the voids left behind.

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蓋溫奇: 如何修復破碎的心