Ajoyib va yangi hayotiy reja fikrimizga kelganda, bizning birinchi instiktimiz bu haqida kimgadir aytishdir, lekin Derek Sivers aytishicha, maqsadlarni sir holatda saqalgan yaxshiroqdir.  U o'zlarining orzulari haqida gapirgan insonlar, shu orzulariga erishish ehtimoli kamligi haqida 1920 yillargacha borib taqaladigan ilmiy tadqiqotlarga asoslanib gapiradi. 

Derek Sivers: Maqsadinglarni o'zingizda saqlang

Sharing big plans lights up the mind with a sense of early accomplishment, but that feeling can be a trap. Studies show those who keep their ambitions private work longer and feel less satisfied prematurely, leading to more progress. In one experiment, people who shared their goals quit 12 minutes earlier on average than those who kept silent. The illusion of progress from social acknowledgment can sap motivation before real work begins.

Announcing Goals Makes Success Less Likely, Not More

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self

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Derek Sivers: Derek Sivers: Maqsadinglarni o'zingizda saqlang