Name: 要克服挑战，就别再与他人比较
Uploaded: 2020-05-18T14:53:48Z
Duration: 12 min 5 s
Description: “当你不再与他人比较时，你就可以成就卓越，” 轮椅运动员迪恩 · 弗内斯（Dean Furness）如是说。他分享了在一场意外中失去双腿后，他是如何发现了一个强大的新思维方式——专注于自己的“个人平均水平”，并一点点变得更好。

迪恩 · 弗内斯: 要克服挑战，就别再与他人比较

要克服挑战，就别再与他人比较

“当你不再与他人比较时，你就可以成就卓越，” 轮椅运动员迪恩 · 弗内斯（Dean Furness）如是说。他分享了在一场意外中失去双腿后，他是如何发现了一个强大的新思维方式——专注于自己的“个人平均水平”，并一点点变得更好。

Focusing on personal growth, not comparison, unlocks resilience and achievement in the face of obstacles. After a life-changing accident left him paralyzed from the chest down, a marathon competitor rebuilt his sense of self by tracking his own 'personal average' and striving to improve it, regardless of others’ standards. Each day’s setbacks or wins became just data points in his journey, not reasons for discouragement. Letting go of who he used to be, he discovered that progress is most powerful when measured against oneself.