戴馮特·葛林: 健康男子氣概的新詮釋

健康男子氣概的新詮釋

當今所謂的「真男人」到底是什麼意思？
在這場充滿實用建議的個人演講中，青少年倡議者戴馮特·葛林 (Davonte Green) 挑戰根深蒂固的男性氣質刻板印象，指出帶著自信與力量在社會中立足前行，真正的關鍵，並非來自攻擊性，而是源自情緒智力與自我控制。

Emotional intelligence is crucial in redefining modern masculinity, not aggression. Many men in prison lost years of their lives for actions taken in under a minute, driven by misconceptions of what it means to be a man. Growing up in environments that celebrate aggression, men often lack emotional management skills. Tools like the feelings wheel and the P.A.U.S.E. strategy can help men manage emotions, avoid conflict, and foster healthy relationships.

Rethinking Masculinity: From Aggression To Emotional Intelligence

Acting on misconceptions of masculinity can have life-altering consequences, as seen in a workshop where many prisoners admitted to committing crimes in under 60 seconds. These incidents often stem from an ingrained need to prove 'real manhood' through aggression, a notion perpetuated by culture and community norms. Embracing emotional intelligence and self-awareness, instead of aggression, can help men avoid such downfalls and lead more fulfilling lives.