Name: A new vision of healthy masculinity
Uploaded: 2025-04-29T15:12:33Z
Duration: 11 min 42 s
Description: What does it actually mean to be a "real man" these days? In a personal talk packed with actionable advice, youth advocate Davonte Green challenges age-old stereotypes about masculinity, showing that emotional intelligence and self-control — not aggression — are the keys to moving through the world with confidence and strength.

What does it actually mean to be a "real man" these days? In a personal talk packed with actionable advice, youth advocate Davonte Green challenges age-old stereotypes about masculinity, showing that emotional intelligence and self-control — not aggression — are the keys to moving through the world with confidence and strength.

A new vision of healthy masculinity

Emotional intelligence is crucial in redefining modern masculinity, not aggression. Many men in prison lost years of their lives for actions taken in under a minute, driven by misconceptions of what it means to be a man. Growing up in environments that celebrate aggression, men often lack emotional management skills. Tools like the feelings wheel and the P.A.U.S.E. strategy can help men manage emotions, avoid conflict, and foster healthy relationships.

Rethinking Masculinity: From Aggression To Emotional Intelligence

Acting on misconceptions of masculinity can have life-altering consequences, as seen in a workshop where many prisoners admitted to committing crimes in under 60 seconds. These incidents often stem from an ingrained need to prove 'real manhood' through aggression, a notion perpetuated by culture and community norms. Embracing emotional intelligence and self-awareness, instead of aggression, can help men avoid such downfalls and lead more fulfilling lives.