Name: 布鲁斯．法伊勒：將敏捷開發方法應用在家庭
Uploaded: 2013-02-25T16:00:03Z
Duration: 17 min 43 s
Description: 布魯斯．法伊勒（Bruce Feiler）有一個激進的想法：利用敏捷方式處理現代家庭生活所帶來的壓力。受到敏捷軟體發展方法的啟發，法伊勒介紹的家庭實踐包括鼓勵靈活性，從下向上提供想法，時常聆聽意見和分配責任歸屬。包括一個令人驚奇的特點：讓孩子們自己選擇懲罰方式。

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Bruce Feiler: 布鲁斯．法伊勒：將敏捷開發方法應用在家庭

布鲁斯．法伊勒：將敏捷開發方法應用在家庭

布魯斯．法伊勒（Bruce Feiler）有一個激進的想法：利用敏捷方式處理現代家庭生活所帶來的壓力。受到敏捷軟體發展方法的啟發，法伊勒介紹的家庭實踐包括鼓勵靈活性，從下向上提供想法，時常聆聽意見和分配責任歸屬。包括一個令人驚奇的特點：讓孩子們自己選擇懲罰方式。

Borrowing from agile software practices, families can boost happiness and reduce stress by embracing constant adaptation, open communication, and shared responsibility. A family in Idaho cut parental yelling in half and improved morning routines by introducing daily checklists and weekly meetings, all in under 20 minutes. Research shows that when children help set goals and reflect on family values, their well-being and self-confidence flourish. Lasting family happiness comes from small steps, flexibility, and letting everyone help write the family story.