Name: 布鲁斯·法伊勒（Bruce Feiler）：将敏捷开发方法引入家庭
Uploaded: 2013-02-25T16:00:03Z
Duration: 17 min 43 s
Description: 布鲁斯·法伊勒（Bruce Feiler）有一个激进的想法：利用敏捷方式应对现代家庭生活所带来的压力。受到敏捷软件开发方法的启发，法伊勒介绍的家庭实践包括鼓励灵活性，想法从下到上流动，不断的反馈，明确责任。还包括一个令人惊奇的特点：孩子们选择他们自己的惩罚方式。

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Bruce Feiler: 布鲁斯·法伊勒（Bruce Feiler）：将敏捷开发方法引入家庭

布鲁斯·法伊勒（Bruce Feiler）：将敏捷开发方法引入家庭

布鲁斯·法伊勒（Bruce Feiler）有一个激进的想法：利用敏捷方式应对现代家庭生活所带来的压力。受到敏捷软件开发方法的启发，法伊勒介绍的家庭实践包括鼓励灵活性，想法从下到上流动，不断的反馈，明确责任。还包括一个令人惊奇的特点：孩子们选择他们自己的惩罚方式。

Borrowing from agile software practices, families can boost happiness and reduce stress by embracing constant adaptation, open communication, and shared responsibility. A family in Idaho cut parental yelling in half and improved morning routines by introducing daily checklists and weekly meetings, all in under 20 minutes. Research shows that when children help set goals and reflect on family values, their well-being and self-confidence flourish. Lasting family happiness comes from small steps, flexibility, and letting everyone help write the family story.